Grief and Hope

A dear friend here is in the early weeks of learning how to deal with her advanced stage cancer, even as she learns to be a mommy to her newborn baby.

My friend and teammate is across the world grieving the death of her father as her children wait here for their parents to return.

And, after I published my last post, I woke up the next morning to the news of the unspeakable tragedy in Connecticut.

Joy and sorrow, life and death all together- the story of this world.

And we prepare, counting down the weeks of Advent, sharing the highs and lows of each day, rejoicing in the gift of today. We press on to celebrate the coming of our Savior, the One who brings hope into the desolation of our world.

He will swallow up death forever, the Sovereign Lord will wipe away the tears from all faces, he will remove the disgrace of his people from all the earth. The Lord has spoken.     - Isaiah 25:8

Nicknames, etc.

We've always been a nickname family, everyone having any number of regulary-used variations on his or her name. Recently, though, we realized that Em has her own special nicknames for each member of our family. They're not new, and she uses them often, but they've eased into our family consciousness slowly, and have just become a topic of conversation. So, for posterity's sake, our little imagination factory's nomenclature:

Daddy- Dipsin Dads
Mommy- Mamasita Maria
Asa- Bipsin
Ju- Sweeshin

She is delightful.

So we've had a little bit of activity lately. Here are Bipsin and Sweeshin on Deck the Halls Night:

And us plus dear friend Catherine after the halls were decked:

Big news is that Dipsin Dads recently got his micro-balcony studio up and running- let's see- this is the second apartment balcony on which he's thrown pots over the course of our married lives, in addition to his parent's garage, his brother's rental home's toolshed, a tiny room at the back of the garage in our house and a big room at our furlough house. Whatever the setting, he's more alive when he's making, and everyone's spirits were high as this came together.

Mamasita Maria's had some adventure of her own lately- was able to go to this beautiful place:

Angkor Wat- Siem Reap, Cambodia

with these beautiful women:

to do this!

Our group was split between the half marathon and 10K (I was most definitely in the 10K contingent), and the effort of traveling to Cambodia and back over land was a marathon in and of itself; certainly the most adventurous thing this mama's done in quite some time! A really neat group of women and I'm so glad I got to be a part of it.

And finally, our girl has had memorable moments, too, lately...

raising the Thai flag with her dear friend before school on a recent morning

Satay making practice with our friend who has a street stall selling this delicacy

And most significantly...months of rehearsals led up to her acting debut in her school's performance of 'It's a Wonderful Life'. She had a small, non-speaking part that whet her appetite for theater and it's likely that auditions and rehearsals will be an ongoing part of our lives. She was smashing.

Thankful

We felt a palpable sense of loss as we missed our families and our culture this Thanksgiving Day, and yet we felt a real sense of joy and fullness in the family and culture to which God has called us in this time and place. We truly have so much for which to be thankful, and a good Father to whom we give thanks. This is a sweet season of our lives and our tree literally overflowed as we have considered over this season the things, big and small, with which God has graced our lives.

Dress Up

On a recent Saturday, ready for a play date at a friend's house

 Perhaps imagination is only intelligence having fun. - George Scialabba

I'm one holiday and almost a month behind, but these were too sweet not to share. Our Dear Aunt B sent the above quote on a birthday card to Asa a few years ago, and I love it. Whether true or not, we have imagination in abundance in our home, and it makes life joyful. Halloween was a few weeks ago, as you no doubt remember, and although it's not widely celebrated here (but the creepier parts are creeping in and retailers are more and more cashing in on the trend!), our little ones gave some consideration to how they might celebrate in costume, dug through the dress up box, and here's what they came up with...

Poor lighting, but Puss in Boots was quite dashing.

Thank you again for this cuteness, Aunt Crystal!

Dress up is not to be confined to a particular day, though...especially for Asa, for whom dressing up is an almost daily event, and little brother is following closely, as little brothers do.

Papa's WWII headgear gets plenty of wear by our little warrior.

This photo fits a bit with the dress up theme- the final day of last month's Thai module, in which we studied Thai culture. We were asked on the last day to wear traditional clothing from our culture, and a few of us did. Our country is a bit tough on this front, with no easily available or discernible traditional costume, melting pot that we are, so I fell back on the trusty old red, white and blue. Not as exciting as the beautiful Thai costume, but it will do.

This one I just had to share, even though I look odd (don't bend awkwardly in pictures), because this precious little baby, whose nickname is 'Peace' was born recently to our dear friends, and we had the privilege of visiting her in her early days. She is simply beautiful. If someone handed me one of these sweet bundles on the street, I would be sorely tempted to walk away quickly without asking questions.

And a recent Ju-ism I will document for posterity...

J: Mommy...

Me: (distracted by two other simultaneous voices) Just a minute, Ju...

Me: (turning to him after a minute) Okay, buddy, what is it?

J: Ummm, well...I lost my mind. (translation: I forgot:)

Going into Thanksgiving tomorrow, thinking of many loved ones we will miss (are, in fact, missing at this very moment) from afar. So thankful for the abundance of love that God has given to us.

Sand and Seaweed

Completely staged, but too much fun not to include

We're fortunate to live relatively near a beach. Not one of Thailand's gorgeous world-renowned beaches, but a sweet little crabby beach on the Gulf of Thailand with a big beautiful ocean nonetheless, that we can drive to in about 3 hours. We also have friends with a condo that they graciously allow us to rent on occasion. School's October break happened a couple of weeks ago, coinciding with one day off from language study, so we took ourselves off for a long weekend away. There's nothing like time away from the city, all together, to refresh and reset. I love these people so much.

Our traditional meal on the way, at an Isaan (northeastern Thailand) restaurant. Sticky rice, somtam and grilled chicken, claws and all. Beaker went along for the vacation and even had his own hook at the table, enjoying bits of cabbage and basil. He's a pampered bird, for sure.

I find it mind-boggling that someone so long-legged and beautiful once grew inside of me. I imagine I'll always feel that wonder; yes, grandparents?

Our artist sketching at the artist village we visited. Love his intensity!

This Wonder Trio has been busy with all sorts of special things, including digging through the dress up box for another scorcher of a Halloween; will share that cuteness soon. And a couple of recent tidbits to round out:

Mommy: Em, did you like the seaweed in your lunch today?
Em: Oh, yes, ma'am, and it traded really well, too!

Ju: Daddy, how do you say สับปะรด in English?
Daddy: Pineapple :)

This Week

This week, the view from our roof looked like this. This weekend Thailand is waiting to see what will come from tropical storm Gaemi, which will be heading over after pouring on Laos, Cambodia and Vietnam. Em's school principal announced this afternoon that the older students should take books home over the weekend in case school has to be canceled at the beginning of next week.

This week we celebrated the life of my best friend, who has been part of my life for the last 22 years. He is a giver of joy to us and to all who know him, and he reflects the love of God in his daily life. We had bratwurst and apple pie and generally a big time.

This week there were some avian 'suggles' happening. This picture is a new all time favorite. 

This one is a close second. I call it 'The Kiss'.

This week the boys had lunch at a roadside restaurant. Asa gave it high marks.

And this wasn't actually this week, but I've just begun a new language module and this was last module's class. I loved this group of people and this teacher, one of the heads of the school, was my most excellent yet. Two more months... อีกสองเดือน...